At the beginning of a relationship, when uncertainty is still in the air, men tend to tell some lies. They do it to boost their self-esteem, to make you feel attracted to them, to cover up their insecurities.
Everyone tells their little lies at the beginning of a relationship, before they feel safe to reveal their true selves.
What are the 5 things men most often lie about at the beginning of a relationship?
1. Secrets from the past.
It's not unexpected for secrets from the past to be covered up early in a relationship. Sometimes even their concealment continues well into the development of the relationship. But no man will reveal details of his past at the beginning of the relationship. Even if you are interested and ask him questions about past relationships, relationships, family problems, you may not get the truth. In most cases, men lie about these details of their lives.
2. His true financial condition.
Men lie both to cover up their lack of financial stability and independence and to cover up their wealth. In one case, their self-esteem suffers because of a lack of funds, and in the other, they try to hide their well-being to protect themselves from gold diggers. For this reason, at the beginning of the relationship, it is very likely that you will be lied to in this direction.
3. The number.
Another common lie men tell is the number of women they've slept with or had a relationship with. Depending on your guy's personality, he can lie to you either way - lower the number to get you to admire him and not think he's a number eater, or raise it to cover up his own relationship insecurities of your experience in relationships.
4. The reasons for the splits with his exes.
Men always lie about the exact reasons for breaking up with their exes. Don't expect them to be completely honest with you about it. It will be a long time before you get the truth, if you ever get it. Concealment of real circumstances is not always malicious. Men are just not as circumstantial as women, and they don't like to elaborate and unravel relationships by analyzing and sharing them.
5. His intentions for your relationship.
Sometimes men make it look like they want to spend their life with you. However, this may not be true at all, but lying to you. It can tell you what you want to hear. It is possible that he himself has no idea what he wants, but is just having fun. But one thing is certain, men lie about their true intentions in many cases.
